Understanding the Cycle of Dehumanization and Its Role in Normalizing Cruelty
- Ty Kelly

- Feb 3
- 3 min read
When cruelty becomes accepted or ignored, the root cause often lies in how we view others. The first step in allowing harm to happen without outrage is not the violence itself, but the way people are stripped of their humanity. This process, called dehumanization, sets the stage for cruelty to become normal. Understanding this cycle helps explain how societies can witness injustice and still remain silent or indifferent.

What Dehumanization Means
Dehumanization happens when we stop seeing others as full human beings with feelings, rights, and dignity. Instead, they become labels or stereotypes. This shift in perception makes it easier to justify mistreatment. It is not just about harsh words or insults; it is a powerful tool that changes how society treats certain groups.
People who are dehumanized are often called names like “illegal,” “criminal,” or “animal.” These labels reduce complex individuals to one negative trait. Once that happens, it becomes easier for others to believe they do not deserve fairness or protection.
How Dehumanization Enables Cruelty
Dehumanization acts like a permission slip for cruelty. When people accept these labels, they may say things such as:
“They broke the rules, so they deserve what they get.”
“They are not like us.”
“They brought this on themselves.”
These statements remove empathy and justify harsh actions. The cruelty that follows can include violence, separation of families, or denial of basic rights. Because the victims are seen as less than human, these actions feel acceptable or even necessary to some.
Common Patterns of Dehumanization
Dehumanization often follows familiar steps that repeat across different times and places:
Renaming people as problems
Using terms like “illegals,” “thugs,” or “welfare queens” turns individuals into issues to be solved rather than people to be helped.
Turning suffering into entertainment
Sharing clips, jokes, or memes about others’ pain makes their suffering seem less real and more like a spectacle.
Making cruelty sound responsible
Phrases like “law and order” or “protecting the children” frame harsh actions as necessary and justified.
Blaming victims for their own suffering
Saying “If they didn’t want it, they shouldn’t have…” shifts responsibility away from perpetrators.
Creating a “good vs bad” test for humanity
Suggesting that only certain people deserve rights or dignity as if these qualities must be earned.
Historical Examples of Dehumanization
History shows how dehumanization has paved the way for some of the worst abuses:
Slavery began not with chains or whips but with the belief that Black people were not fully human. This belief allowed enslavers to treat people as property, justifying family separations, physical abuse, and forced labor.
Women’s oppression often involved seeing women as objects or property rather than individuals with autonomy. They were labeled as “too emotional” or valued only for their bodies, which justified denying them rights and freedoms.
These examples reveal how dehumanization strips away identity and dignity, making cruelty seem normal or necessary.
Why Dehumanization Works So Well
Dehumanization succeeds because it simplifies complex social issues into easy stories. It creates clear “us vs them” divisions that appeal to fear or prejudice. When people believe others are less than human, they do not feel responsible for their well-being.
This process also spreads quickly through language and media. Negative labels and stereotypes become common phrases that shape public opinion. Over time, these ideas become deeply ingrained, making it harder to challenge injustice.
Breaking the Cycle
Stopping dehumanization requires conscious effort:
Recognize language that dehumanizes
Pay attention to words and phrases that reduce people to labels or stereotypes.
See people as individuals
Learn about others’ stories and experiences to build empathy.
Challenge harmful narratives
Speak out against blaming victims or justifying cruelty.
Promote dignity and rights for all
Support policies and actions that protect everyone’s humanity.
By understanding how dehumanization works, we can resist the patterns that allow cruelty to become normal.
A word from Ty.......
I’m watching people get stripped down to labels like it’s normal.
Like it’s normal to talk about human beings like they’re a problem to remove.
Like it’s normal to act like fear is policy.
And I keep thinking about how this country has done this before.
They did it to Black people so slavery could be “justified.”
They did it to women so control could be called “order.”
They do it to people in prison so cruelty can be called “consequences.”
And now they’re doing it again—different target, same playbook.
So no, I’m not okay.
Because the moment we decide someone doesn’t deserve humanity is the moment we give permission for anything to happen to them.
And I don’t care what somebody did, where they were born, what papers they have, or what label you slap on them—human is human.
Talk to me in the comments
Where do you see dehumanization showing up right now?
What labels do you hear people using that make cruelty feel “acceptable?”
What would it look like to refuse the playbook?



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