Welcome to Still Not Okay.
This is a community space connected to the Still Not Okay blog—created for people who are tired,
angry, grieving, confused, and trying to make sense of what we’re watching happen in real time.
This group is a safe place to vent, process, and talk about the posts—without being silenced, shamed, or talked down to. You don’t have to have the perfect words. You don’t have to be “polite enough” to be heard. You just have to be human.
We’re here for:
Real conversations about what’s happening
Support, community, and “me too” moments
Respectful debate (not disrespectful behavior)
Resources, reflection, and healing while we’re still in it
You are allowed to not be okay here.
Group Culture (Read This First)
We don’t do censorship here—but we do protect the community. That means we can be honest andrespectful at the same time.
Community Rules
Respect people, even when you disagree. No name-calling, bullying, or personal attacks.
No hate speech. Racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, ableism, or dehumanizing language = removed.
Vent freely—don’t target members. Talk about systems, events, and experiences without attacking people in the group.
No doxxing or threats. Don’t post personal info, addresses, workplaces, or calls for violence.
Protect privacy. What’s shared here stays here. Don’t screenshot or repost without permission.
Content warnings help. If your post includes graphic details (violence, SA, self-harm, etc.), add a quick warning at the top.
This is support, not therapy. Share resources and encouragement, but don’t diagnose or pressure anyone to disclose.
What We’ll Remove
Harassment, hate speech, threats, doxxing
Spam, scams, or self-promo without admin approval
Posts meant to provoke or bait people (“rage farming”)
Posting Prompts (if you don’t know what to say)
“This post hit me because…”
“What I’m struggling with today is…”
“Does anyone else feel…?”
“Here’s what helped me this week…”
