Money conversations often spark tension in relationships. The arguments rarely revolve around dollars and cents. Instead, they expose deeper feelings about security, control, respect, and personal history. Understanding these hidden emotions can transform difficult talks into opportunities for connection and shared goals.

Living in a relationship where one partner has ADHD and the other is autistic can feel like navigating two different worlds. It’s easy to think the challenges come from personal flaws or incompatibility. But the real issue often lies in the systems couples use to manage daily life and communication. When those systems don’t fit how each brain works, frustration builds. This post explores how neurodivergent couples can stop trying to change each other and start building